We are all one in the same.

We live, we laugh, we cry, we smile, we frown, we break hearts, we gossip, we think we’re different, we pout, we complain, we’re indecisive, we think we know what we want but really we have no idea – We are all one in the same.

Some things differ from person to person.
You’ll say; “I don’t gossip”
But when you’re sitting there with your best friend, you’ll feed into it.
He’ll say; “I don’t judge”
But if someone cracks a joke on what another person is wearing, he'll laugh and agree.
I’ll say; “I know what I want”
But then turn around and crush when I wanted to be single.

Some are the same in a negative way, some in a positive way. It’s all in how you control your life; which can be an argument because some feel you have no control (the whole religious thing). But I do believe when you wake up everyday you choose, subconsciously, whether or not you will handle the day in a positive or negative way. You choose whether or not you will be happy.

I wished more people believed that.

I sometimes wish that wasn’t true and at times believe it isn’t because it is much easier to be miserable than it is to be happy. It is much easier to look at all the negative things in life than the few positive. But once you say to yourself [aloud] “I’m stronger than this- this will not break me.” You start to feel a bit better because your mind realizes that things could be much worst than it already is.

Smile. Be happy. Control your own life.

Because you can be alone, with no job, no family, no home, no love… nothing.
And not one person I know is suffering from any or all of those things…
So please people remember;
You’re Only As Happy As You Allow Yourself To be.
If you decide that’s not the case, please don’t come to me because I will not pity you.
I will feel sorry.
And I will walk away.
Because I am the last person that needs negativity in my life.



*drops mic*